We awaken the healing wisdom within us when we open up to that clear power of our meditations.

<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"> </div> <br /> <div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"> </div> <div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"> </div> <div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"> <a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEiBG-xh0sc_zVoo2N9xN4mQyktbCBJI-6skn29wpDlCF43ncTfgVankC2Iyd574ubhiSYds09FuAWvj7wMYhw0acQhoD3Mp2wEyBb-6-wEzQdJuznyLuHGgksX4ltS-j2ZRcVoZWqV-n2o/s1600/DSC_0536.JPG" imageanchor="1" style="clear: left; float: left; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" height="320" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEiBG-xh0sc_zVoo2N9xN4mQyktbCBJI-6skn29wpDlCF43ncTfgVankC2Iyd574ubhiSYds09FuAWvj7wMYhw0acQhoD3Mp2wEyBb-6-wEzQdJuznyLuHGgksX4ltS-j2ZRcVoZWqV-n2o/s320/DSC_0536.JPG" width="180" /></a></div> <span style="font-family: "courier new" , "courier" , monospace; font-size: large;">We come to experience that meditation and the quietening of our falsely created parental voice begins to relax the judgemental voices that we have picked up in our dysfunctional childhoods. </span><br /> <span style="font-family: "courier new" , "courier" , monospace; font-size: large;"><br /></span> <span style="font-family: "courier new" , "courier" , monospace; font-size: large;"><br /></span> <span style="font-family: "courier new" , "courier" , monospace; font-size: large;"><br /></span> <span style="font-family: "courier new" , "courier" , monospace; font-size: large;">The understanding comes to us that our creation of God/Goddess/Universe/Creator/Spirit/Higher Power are externalised judgemental voices which collude in keeping us in a cage of safety and dull us down into non productive coping strategies. </span><br /> <div> <span style="font-family: "courier new" , "courier" , monospace; font-size: large;"><br /></span></div> <div> <span style="font-family: "courier new" , "courier" , monospace; font-size: large;">We awaken the healing wisdom within us when we open ourselves to that clear power of our meditations.At this stage the seeds of our authentic selves and trust in the healing power of the truth starts to permeate back into our consciousness. We move into a quite neutral space and we reawaken a sense of anxiety and fear. At this time we recognise that we need reassurance that all is well and the anxiety is an illusion.<br /><br />We come to understand that since there is a form of universality within us, this is a our true self . We came to recognise that this God/personalised parental figure outside of us and beyond us, that this externalised God, who is essentially little more than an idealised, fantasy parent, can not save us and we are not being disloyal to reject it. The newly found self starts to reconstruct our lives.<br /><br />Basically,The coping strategy of the old belief system tells us that we can’t take care of ourselves because we are too wounded as children, too completely damaged, but we still believe in our illusion that our idealised Mommies/Daddies can still save us! We just have to put our faith back in this illusory Mommy figure hopefully a better fantasised Mommy than we had the first time around not the one who participated in crushing our personality and making us into such a deranged dysfunctional person.</span></div> <div class="zemanta-related" style="clear: both; margin-top: 20px; overflow: hidden;"> <h4 class="zemanta-related-title"> Related articles</h4> <ul class="zemanta-article-ul zemanta-article-ul-image" style="margin: 0; overflow: hidden; padding: 0;"> <li class="zemanta-article-ul-li-image zemanta-article-ul-li" style="background: none; display: block; float: left; font-size: 11px; list-style: none; margin: 2px 10px 10px 2px; padding: 0; text-align: left; vertical-align: top; width: 84px;"><a href="http://intuitivevoices.blogspot.com/2015/04/their-is-nothing-remotely-like-ten.html" style="border-radius: 2px; box-shadow: 0px 0px 4px #999; display: block; padding: 2px; text-decoration: none;" target="_blank"><img src="//i.zemanta.com/336854411_80_80.jpg" style="border: 0; 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display: block; height: 83px; line-height: 12pt; overflow: hidden; padding: 5px 2px 0 2px; text-decoration: none;" target="_blank">Their is nothing remotely like THE TEN STAGES.</a></li> <li class="zemanta-article-ul-li-image zemanta-article-ul-li" style="background: none; display: block; float: left; font-size: 11px; list-style: none; margin: 2px 10px 10px 2px; padding: 0; text-align: left; vertical-align: top; width: 84px;"><a href="http://intuitivevoices.blogspot.com/2015/07/just-by-making-contact-with-child.html" style="border-radius: 2px; box-shadow: 0px 0px 4px #999; display: block; padding: 2px; text-decoration: none;" target="_blank"><img src="//i.zemanta.com/350960907_80_80.jpg" style="border: 0; display: block; margin: 0; max-width: 100%; padding: 0; width: 80px;" /></a><a href="http://intuitivevoices.blogspot.com/2015/07/just-by-making-contact-with-child.html" style="background-image: none; display: block; height: 83px; line-height: 12pt; overflow: hidden; padding: 5px 2px 0 2px; 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It is within the Ten stages that we experiment with our newly found freedoms.

<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"> </div> <div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"> </div> <br /> <div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"> </div> <div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"> <a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgss2qRo7jSdJ4Q6nqQ0a68-fdiFguLyDAxWHJM1_g0IoL0hpS9MFIcyG0PDgTLN6y8BTP6aRVzIRzfOeYIMGJs9yiGlDXe9vKpweu31ec2UokyRWY2DUwozCh0wNHTTX_6aBa5eltagPI/s1600/DSC_0462BORO.JPG" imageanchor="1" style="clear: left; float: left; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" height="180" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgss2qRo7jSdJ4Q6nqQ0a68-fdiFguLyDAxWHJM1_g0IoL0hpS9MFIcyG0PDgTLN6y8BTP6aRVzIRzfOeYIMGJs9yiGlDXe9vKpweu31ec2UokyRWY2DUwozCh0wNHTTX_6aBa5eltagPI/s320/DSC_0462BORO.JPG" width="320" /></a></div> <span style="font-family: "courier new" , "courier" , monospace; font-size: large;">It is within the Ten stages that we experiment with our newly found freedoms.</span><br /> <div> <span style="font-family: "courier new" , "courier" , monospace; font-size: large;"><br />We start to seek out new situations, jobs, and people that affirm our intelligence, perceptions, and self-worth and avoid situations or people who are hurtful harmful, or demeaning to us.<br /><br />We take steps to heal our physical bodies, organise our lives, reduce stress, and have fun.<br /><br />We seek to find our inward calling, and develop the will and wisdom to follow it.<br /><br />We accept the ups and downs of life as natural events that can be used as lessons for our growth.<br /><br />We grow in awareness that we are sacred beings, interrelated with all living things, and we contribute to restoring peace and balance in our life<br />. <br /><b>Now we will realise our dissociation.</b> We will renounce clinging to a philosophy and the self that is full of holes, We will start to practice a new way of life, the art of becoming real. Living in our wonderful reality.(WOW the old parenting voice got very condemning at this point "I own you, you are nothing without me.Pay your debt to me.)<br />We will have gone deep inside the roots of our being to affirm our health. In our found reality, without just practicing splitting off from living in the present moment. We stop looking at our fantasy illusions and we stop making it look fancy to myself and others. </span></div> <div> <span style="font-family: "courier new" , "courier" , monospace; font-size: large;"><br /><i>We will stop talking to God of another understanding in prayer because We have no idea who God really is.</i> We will listen to the universe in meditation and be able to realise that We are affirming the deepest and most basic essences of our souls. We will have found ourselves and will now have a beautiful full capacity that I’m come home to myself at last!<br /><br />Overrider for those of us deprogramming from the fellowships and have our self-worth invested in converting others. <b>REMEMBER THIS IS A PAID FOR TAUGHT COURSE </b>(not a cult, you pay for the course and there is a cut of date everything after that is socialising and enjoyment.We do not have any groups,mentors,sponsors or gurus.This is about unlearning not learning we are all born perfect.)<br />Now that We have started to become enlightened and free from the twisted thinking ( theres not ours) that resulted in our dysfunction (that is, not dissociated) and no longer need an addictive process to achieve this dissociated state, We will understand real peace in our reality.We will not and go out and begin a mission to proselytise my version of “the truth.” We will renounce the idea that we have to manipulate others who use addictions to dissociate from their unresolved childhood traumas to follow their ( another form of recovery largely unreliable program) and to split-off from their ancient wounds just as we have done. </span></div> <div> <span style="font-family: "courier new" , "courier" , monospace; font-size: large;">We will renounce the idea that we have to convert anybody by insulting and degrading and pathologising them. We have to acknowledge that It will reinfect us and rebuild the sick selfs very grandiose ways to cajole other traumatised addicts of the dysfunctional paths into dissociating by requesting that they follow our adopted methods and The Stages, but We will acknowledge this as our grandiosity and old outmoded coping strategy an enemy of our newly found reality and we will cease.</span></div> <div class="zemanta-related" style="clear: both; margin-top: 20px; overflow: hidden;"> <h4 class="zemanta-related-title"> Related articles</h4> <ul class="zemanta-article-ul zemanta-article-ul-image" style="margin: 0; overflow: hidden; padding: 0;"> <li class="zemanta-article-ul-li-image zemanta-article-ul-li" style="background: none; display: block; float: left; font-size: 11px; list-style: none; margin: 2px 10px 10px 2px; padding: 0; text-align: left; vertical-align: top; width: 84px;"><a href="http://intuitivevoices.blogspot.com/2015/04/their-is-nothing-remotely-like-ten.html" style="border-radius: 2px; 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It is within the Ten stages that we experiment with our newly found freedoms.

It is within the Ten stages that we experiment with our newly found freedoms. We start to seek out new situations, jobs, and peop...

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Dissociation is what we have practised for a long time...

<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"> <a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjFM5CbRMMG6PHojQwTXnvf0_pvoi736_UuI_8ln4eZ8GZD1O4xI9bA7sFe9rjla3X-bsIz-TnplLWTgNHrbM0_OYSV9nIPOvWBwC3e_87WLzxTanXkRhUxNwBtWfvPD5THG4YiDriUL4w/s1600/1-potty23.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="clear: left; float: left; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjFM5CbRMMG6PHojQwTXnvf0_pvoi736_UuI_8ln4eZ8GZD1O4xI9bA7sFe9rjla3X-bsIz-TnplLWTgNHrbM0_OYSV9nIPOvWBwC3e_87WLzxTanXkRhUxNwBtWfvPD5THG4YiDriUL4w/s1600/1-potty23.jpg" /></a></div> <span style="font-family: Courier New, Courier, monospace; font-size: large;">Dissociation is what we have practised for a long time.... not reality and until we come to a deeper understanding of what has happened to us no healing can take place, no meditation will work, no religious practice will have any meaning. We will remain deeply dysfunctional without the symptoms being visible the cancerous cells of our hurt psyche will proceed onwards.Our messages from childhood remain deeply entrenched paralysing us into our old states</span><br /> <div class="zemanta-related" style="clear: both; margin-top: 20px; overflow: hidden;"> <h4 class="zemanta-related-title"> Related articles</h4> <ul class="zemanta-article-ul zemanta-article-ul-image" style="margin: 0; overflow: hidden; padding: 0;"> <li class="zemanta-article-ul-li-image zemanta-article-ul-li" style="background: none; display: block; float: left; font-size: 11px; list-style: none; margin: 2px 10px 10px 2px; padding: 0; text-align: left; vertical-align: top; width: 84px;"><a href="http://stagescommunity.blogspot.com/2015/03/their-is-nothing-remotely-like-ten.html" style="border-radius: 2px; box-shadow: 0px 0px 4px #999; display: block; padding: 2px; text-decoration: none;" target="_blank"><img src="//i.zemanta.com/336854361_80_80.jpg" style="border: 0; display: block; margin: 0; max-width: 100%; padding: 0; width: 80px;" /></a><a href="http://stagescommunity.blogspot.com/2015/03/their-is-nothing-remotely-like-ten.html" style="background-image: none; display: block; height: 83px; line-height: 12pt; overflow: hidden; padding: 5px 2px 0 2px; text-decoration: none;" target="_blank">Their is nothing remotely like THE TEN STAGES.</a></li> <li class="zemanta-article-ul-li-image zemanta-article-ul-li" style="background: none; display: block; float: left; font-size: 11px; list-style: none; margin: 2px 10px 10px 2px; padding: 0; text-align: left; vertical-align: top; width: 84px;"><a href="http://intuitivevoices.blogspot.com/2015/07/just-by-making-contact-with-child.html" style="border-radius: 2px; box-shadow: 0px 0px 4px #999; display: block; padding: 2px; text-decoration: none;" target="_blank"><img src="//i.zemanta.com/350960907_80_80.jpg" style="border: 0; display: block; margin: 0; max-width: 100%; padding: 0; width: 80px;" /></a><a href="http://intuitivevoices.blogspot.com/2015/07/just-by-making-contact-with-child.html" style="background-image: none; display: block; height: 83px; line-height: 12pt; overflow: hidden; padding: 5px 2px 0 2px; text-decoration: none;" target="_blank">Just by making contact with the child within starts an attempt to make an empathetic listening environment that engenders the process of building a new recovered self and the journey towards maturity begins</a></li> <li class="zemanta-article-ul-li-image zemanta-article-ul-li" style="background: none; display: block; float: left; font-size: 11px; list-style: none; margin: 2px 10px 10px 2px; padding: 0; text-align: left; vertical-align: top; width: 84px;"><a href="http://stagescommunity.blogspot.com/2015/03/just-by-making-contact-with-child.html" style="border-radius: 2px; box-shadow: 0px 0px 4px #999; display: block; padding: 2px; text-decoration: none;" target="_blank"><img src="//i.zemanta.com/336854350_80_80.jpg" style="border: 0; display: block; margin: 0; max-width: 100%; padding: 0; width: 80px;" /></a><a href="http://stagescommunity.blogspot.com/2015/03/just-by-making-contact-with-child.html" style="background-image: none; display: block; height: 83px; line-height: 12pt; overflow: hidden; padding: 5px 2px 0 2px; text-decoration: none;" target="_blank">Just by making contact with the child within and that their is an attempt to make an empathetic listening environment that starts the process of building a new recovered self</a></li> <li class="zemanta-article-ul-li-image zemanta-article-ul-li" style="background: none; display: block; float: left; font-size: 11px; list-style: none; margin: 2px 10px 10px 2px; padding: 0; text-align: left; vertical-align: top; width: 84px;"><a href="http://childwithinus.blogspot.com/2015/05/we-all-suffer-from-social-dissociation.html" style="border-radius: 2px; box-shadow: 0px 0px 4px #999; display: block; padding: 2px; text-decoration: none;" target="_blank"><img src="//i.zemanta.com/341513093_80_80.jpg" style="border: 0; display: block; margin: 0; max-width: 100%; padding: 0; width: 80px;" /></a><a href="http://childwithinus.blogspot.com/2015/05/we-all-suffer-from-social-dissociation.html" style="background-image: none; display: block; height: 83px; line-height: 12pt; overflow: hidden; padding: 5px 2px 0 2px; text-decoration: none;" target="_blank">We all suffer from social dissociation or joining the tribe.</a></li> <li class="zemanta-article-ul-li-image zemanta-article-ul-li" style="background: none; display: block; float: left; font-size: 11px; list-style: none; margin: 2px 10px 10px 2px; padding: 0; text-align: left; vertical-align: top; width: 84px;"><a href="http://socialpsychologists.blogspot.com/2015/07/burning-and-releasing-at-stages-anger.html" style="border-radius: 2px; box-shadow: 0px 0px 4px #999; display: block; padding: 2px; text-decoration: none;" target="_blank"><img src="//i.zemanta.com/350425517_80_80.jpg" style="border: 0; display: block; margin: 0; max-width: 100%; padding: 0; width: 80px;" /></a><a href="http://socialpsychologists.blogspot.com/2015/07/burning-and-releasing-at-stages-anger.html" style="background-image: none; display: block; height: 83px; line-height: 12pt; overflow: hidden; padding: 5px 2px 0 2px; text-decoration: none;" target="_blank">Burning and releasing at the stages anger mismanagement workshops</a></li> <li class="zemanta-article-ul-li-image zemanta-article-ul-li" style="background: none; display: block; float: left; font-size: 11px; list-style: none; margin: 2px 10px 10px 2px; padding: 0; text-align: left; vertical-align: top; width: 84px;"><a href="http://stagesevents.blogspot.com/2015/05/we-have-to-gently-make-contact-with-our.html" style="border-radius: 2px; box-shadow: 0px 0px 4px #999; display: block; padding: 2px; text-decoration: none;" target="_blank"><img src="//i.zemanta.com/343975726_80_80.jpg" style="border: 0; display: block; margin: 0; max-width: 100%; padding: 0; width: 80px;" /></a><a href="http://stagesevents.blogspot.com/2015/05/we-have-to-gently-make-contact-with-our.html" style="background-image: none; display: block; height: 83px; line-height: 12pt; overflow: hidden; padding: 5px 2px 0 2px; text-decoration: none;" target="_blank">We have to gently make contact with our child within to build in natural redundancies to our dissociative early coping strategies, as they are no longer needed.</a></li> </ul> </div>

Dissociation is what we have practised for a long time...

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Each of us has a child residing deep within inside us

<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"> <a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEj8plGRQTGPausUDeq6zl7DnbuVS1dozvFAunIJ-toOKHdCBL8HwnrfyIBdjW4p8SPF9lCXLsCzGwN0emGXZYCJKzvbdiT5cPoH1VP4LgaHqeYy8DgP_QhG5GkkwHgMoBHRaxRLVOW64nw/s1600/1-child+within+us.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" height="99" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEj8plGRQTGPausUDeq6zl7DnbuVS1dozvFAunIJ-toOKHdCBL8HwnrfyIBdjW4p8SPF9lCXLsCzGwN0emGXZYCJKzvbdiT5cPoH1VP4LgaHqeYy8DgP_QhG5GkkwHgMoBHRaxRLVOW64nw/s320/1-child+within+us.jpg" width="320" /></a></div> <span style="font-family: Courier New, Courier, monospace; font-size: large;">Each of us has a child residing deep within inside us, one that is a direct descendant of the child we once were. This child within is with us at all times and shows up here and there behind certain desires and actions, without us really being conscious of their presence</span><br /> <div class="zemanta-related" style="clear: both; margin-top: 20px; overflow: hidden;"> <h4 class="zemanta-related-title"> Related articles</h4> <ul class="zemanta-article-ul zemanta-article-ul-image" style="margin: 0; overflow: hidden; padding: 0;"> <li class="zemanta-article-ul-li-image zemanta-article-ul-li" style="background: none; display: block; float: left; font-size: 11px; list-style: none; margin: 2px 10px 10px 2px; padding: 0; text-align: left; vertical-align: top; width: 84px;"><a href="http://childwithinus.blogspot.com/2015/08/theres-no-addiction-without-thought.html" style="border-radius: 2px; box-shadow: 0px 0px 4px #999; display: block; padding: 2px; text-decoration: none;" target="_blank"><img src="//i.zemanta.com/355423486_80_80.jpg" style="border: 0; display: block; margin: 0; max-width: 100%; padding: 0; width: 80px;" /></a><a href="http://childwithinus.blogspot.com/2015/08/theres-no-addiction-without-thought.html" style="background-image: none; display: block; height: 83px; line-height: 12pt; overflow: hidden; padding: 5px 2px 0 2px; text-decoration: none;" target="_blank">There's no addiction without 'thought disorder', broken sentences, blocked phrases.</a></li> <li class="zemanta-article-ul-li-image zemanta-article-ul-li" style="background: none; display: block; float: left; font-size: 11px; list-style: none; margin: 2px 10px 10px 2px; padding: 0; text-align: left; vertical-align: top; width: 84px;"><a href="http://stageforum.blogspot.com/2015/04/this-forum-was-created-to-provide-safe.html" style="border-radius: 2px; box-shadow: 0px 0px 4px #999; display: block; padding: 2px; text-decoration: none;" target="_blank"><img src="//i.zemanta.com/339572729_80_80.jpg" style="border: 0; display: block; margin: 0; max-width: 100%; padding: 0; width: 80px;" /></a><a href="http://stageforum.blogspot.com/2015/04/this-forum-was-created-to-provide-safe.html" style="background-image: none; display: block; height: 83px; line-height: 12pt; overflow: hidden; padding: 5px 2px 0 2px; text-decoration: none;" target="_blank">This forum was created to provide a safe, sane place to use, discuss and study the 10 Stages of Discovery</a></li> <li class="zemanta-article-ul-li-image zemanta-article-ul-li" style="background: none; display: block; float: left; font-size: 11px; list-style: none; margin: 2px 10px 10px 2px; padding: 0; text-align: left; vertical-align: top; width: 84px;"><a href="http://recoverystages.blogspot.com/2015/05/the-ten-stages-are-studied-recoverythey.html" style="border-radius: 2px; box-shadow: 0px 0px 4px #999; display: block; padding: 2px; text-decoration: none;" target="_blank"><img src="//i.zemanta.com/340757559_80_80.jpg" style="border: 0; display: block; margin: 0; max-width: 100%; padding: 0; width: 80px;" /></a><a href="http://recoverystages.blogspot.com/2015/05/the-ten-stages-are-studied-recoverythey.html" style="background-image: none; display: block; height: 83px; line-height: 12pt; overflow: hidden; padding: 5px 2px 0 2px; text-decoration: none;" target="_blank">The Ten Stages are studied recovery.They are a source of reconnection a method of unlearning and a reintroduction to our child within which leads us back</a></li> <li class="zemanta-article-ul-li-image zemanta-article-ul-li" style="background: none; display: block; float: left; font-size: 11px; list-style: none; margin: 2px 10px 10px 2px; padding: 0; text-align: left; vertical-align: top; width: 84px;"><a href="http://stagesevents.blogspot.com/2015/05/we-have-to-gently-make-contact-with-our.html" style="border-radius: 2px; box-shadow: 0px 0px 4px #999; display: block; padding: 2px; text-decoration: none;" target="_blank"><img src="//i.zemanta.com/343975726_80_80.jpg" style="border: 0; display: block; margin: 0; max-width: 100%; padding: 0; width: 80px;" /></a><a href="http://stagesevents.blogspot.com/2015/05/we-have-to-gently-make-contact-with-our.html" style="background-image: none; display: block; height: 83px; line-height: 12pt; overflow: hidden; padding: 5px 2px 0 2px; text-decoration: none;" target="_blank">We have to gently make contact with our child within to build in natural redundancies to our dissociative early coping strategies, as they are no longer needed.</a></li> <li class="zemanta-article-ul-li-image zemanta-article-ul-li" style="background: none; display: block; float: left; font-size: 11px; list-style: none; margin: 2px 10px 10px 2px; padding: 0; text-align: left; vertical-align: top; width: 84px;"><a href="http://socialpsychologists.blogspot.com/2015/07/burning-and-releasing-at-stages-anger.html" style="border-radius: 2px; box-shadow: 0px 0px 4px #999; display: block; padding: 2px; text-decoration: none;" target="_blank"><img src="//i.zemanta.com/350425517_80_80.jpg" style="border: 0; display: block; margin: 0; max-width: 100%; padding: 0; width: 80px;" /></a><a href="http://socialpsychologists.blogspot.com/2015/07/burning-and-releasing-at-stages-anger.html" style="background-image: none; display: block; height: 83px; line-height: 12pt; overflow: hidden; padding: 5px 2px 0 2px; text-decoration: none;" target="_blank">Burning and releasing at the stages anger mismanagement workshops</a></li> <li class="zemanta-article-ul-li-image zemanta-article-ul-li" style="background: none; display: block; float: left; font-size: 11px; list-style: none; margin: 2px 10px 10px 2px; padding: 0; text-align: left; vertical-align: top; width: 84px;"><a href="http://childwithinus.blogspot.com/2015/05/we-all-suffer-from-social-dissociation.html" style="border-radius: 2px; box-shadow: 0px 0px 4px #999; display: block; padding: 2px; text-decoration: none;" target="_blank"><img src="//i.zemanta.com/341513093_80_80.jpg" style="border: 0; display: block; margin: 0; max-width: 100%; padding: 0; width: 80px;" /></a><a href="http://childwithinus.blogspot.com/2015/05/we-all-suffer-from-social-dissociation.html" style="background-image: none; display: block; height: 83px; line-height: 12pt; overflow: hidden; padding: 5px 2px 0 2px; text-decoration: none;" target="_blank">We all suffer from social dissociation or joining the tribe.</a></li> </ul> </div>

Each of us has a child residing deep within inside us

Each of us has a child residing deep within inside us, one that is a direct descendant of the child we once were. This child within is wit...

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The child within is real.

<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"> <a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhI82WvO_2F5xUS9U2rw2MTjurM1TpKdTB4l46HBQ1hGWzo_ZIiqAipkfpT0pn-lNpPDb10fI5oqoXZ1BQqonfTSOxMeSwT5V5Kee5PbVhgMj5fKh8AUd2us7U3gzWlgopUxkUOTfaSMmA/s1600/1-child+within+us.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" height="99" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhI82WvO_2F5xUS9U2rw2MTjurM1TpKdTB4l46HBQ1hGWzo_ZIiqAipkfpT0pn-lNpPDb10fI5oqoXZ1BQqonfTSOxMeSwT5V5Kee5PbVhgMj5fKh8AUd2us7U3gzWlgopUxkUOTfaSMmA/s320/1-child+within+us.jpg" width="320" /></a></div> <span style="font-family: Courier New, Courier, monospace; font-size: large;">The child within is real.literally. physically.figuratively, metaphorically real.It is--like complexes in general--a psychological reality, An extraordinarily powerful one at that. Indeed, most mental disorders and destructive behaviour patterns are,related to this unconscious part of ourselves. We were all children, and still have that child dwelling within us. But most adults are quite unaware of this. And this lack of conscious relatedness to our own child within is precisely where so many of our behavioural, emotional and relationship difficulties stem from.</span><br /> <div class="zemanta-related" style="clear: both; margin-top: 20px; overflow: hidden;"> <h4 class="zemanta-related-title"> Related articles</h4> <ul class="zemanta-article-ul zemanta-article-ul-image" style="margin: 0; overflow: hidden; padding: 0;"> <li class="zemanta-article-ul-li-image zemanta-article-ul-li" style="background: none; display: block; float: left; font-size: 11px; list-style: none; margin: 2px 10px 10px 2px; padding: 0; text-align: left; vertical-align: top; width: 84px;"><a href="http://childwithinus.blogspot.com/2015/08/theres-no-addiction-without-thought.html" style="border-radius: 2px; box-shadow: 0px 0px 4px #999; display: block; padding: 2px; text-decoration: none;" target="_blank"><img src="//i.zemanta.com/355423486_80_80.jpg" style="border: 0; display: block; margin: 0; max-width: 100%; padding: 0; width: 80px;" /></a><a href="http://childwithinus.blogspot.com/2015/08/theres-no-addiction-without-thought.html" style="background-image: none; display: block; height: 83px; line-height: 12pt; overflow: hidden; padding: 5px 2px 0 2px; text-decoration: none;" target="_blank">There's no addiction without 'thought disorder', broken sentences, blocked phrases.</a></li> <li class="zemanta-article-ul-li-image zemanta-article-ul-li" style="background: none; display: block; float: left; font-size: 11px; list-style: none; margin: 2px 10px 10px 2px; padding: 0; text-align: left; vertical-align: top; width: 84px;"><a href="http://stageforum.blogspot.com/2015/04/this-forum-was-created-to-provide-safe.html" style="border-radius: 2px; box-shadow: 0px 0px 4px #999; display: block; padding: 2px; text-decoration: none;" target="_blank"><img src="//i.zemanta.com/339572729_80_80.jpg" style="border: 0; display: block; margin: 0; max-width: 100%; padding: 0; width: 80px;" /></a><a href="http://stageforum.blogspot.com/2015/04/this-forum-was-created-to-provide-safe.html" style="background-image: none; display: block; height: 83px; line-height: 12pt; overflow: hidden; padding: 5px 2px 0 2px; text-decoration: none;" target="_blank">This forum was created to provide a safe, sane place to use, discuss and study the 10 Stages of Discovery</a></li> <li class="zemanta-article-ul-li-image zemanta-article-ul-li" style="background: none; display: block; float: left; font-size: 11px; list-style: none; margin: 2px 10px 10px 2px; padding: 0; text-align: left; vertical-align: top; width: 84px;"><a href="http://recoverystages.blogspot.com/2015/05/the-ten-stages-are-studied-recoverythey.html" style="border-radius: 2px; box-shadow: 0px 0px 4px #999; display: block; padding: 2px; text-decoration: none;" target="_blank"><img src="//i.zemanta.com/340757559_80_80.jpg" style="border: 0; display: block; margin: 0; max-width: 100%; padding: 0; width: 80px;" /></a><a href="http://recoverystages.blogspot.com/2015/05/the-ten-stages-are-studied-recoverythey.html" style="background-image: none; display: block; height: 83px; line-height: 12pt; overflow: hidden; padding: 5px 2px 0 2px; text-decoration: none;" target="_blank">The Ten Stages are studied recovery.They are a source of reconnection a method of unlearning and a reintroduction to our child within which leads us back</a></li> <li class="zemanta-article-ul-li-image zemanta-article-ul-li" style="background: none; display: block; float: left; font-size: 11px; list-style: none; margin: 2px 10px 10px 2px; padding: 0; text-align: left; vertical-align: top; width: 84px;"><a href="http://stagesevents.blogspot.com/2015/05/we-have-to-gently-make-contact-with-our.html" style="border-radius: 2px; box-shadow: 0px 0px 4px #999; display: block; padding: 2px; text-decoration: none;" target="_blank"><img src="//i.zemanta.com/343975726_80_80.jpg" style="border: 0; display: block; margin: 0; max-width: 100%; padding: 0; width: 80px;" /></a><a href="http://stagesevents.blogspot.com/2015/05/we-have-to-gently-make-contact-with-our.html" style="background-image: none; display: block; height: 83px; line-height: 12pt; overflow: hidden; padding: 5px 2px 0 2px; text-decoration: none;" target="_blank">We have to gently make contact with our child within to build in natural redundancies to our dissociative early coping strategies, as they are no longer needed.</a></li> <li class="zemanta-article-ul-li-image zemanta-article-ul-li" style="background: none; display: block; float: left; font-size: 11px; list-style: none; margin: 2px 10px 10px 2px; padding: 0; text-align: left; vertical-align: top; width: 84px;"><a href="http://socialpsychologists.blogspot.com/2015/07/burning-and-releasing-at-stages-anger.html" style="border-radius: 2px; box-shadow: 0px 0px 4px #999; display: block; padding: 2px; text-decoration: none;" target="_blank"><img src="//i.zemanta.com/350425517_80_80.jpg" style="border: 0; display: block; margin: 0; max-width: 100%; padding: 0; width: 80px;" /></a><a href="http://socialpsychologists.blogspot.com/2015/07/burning-and-releasing-at-stages-anger.html" style="background-image: none; display: block; height: 83px; line-height: 12pt; overflow: hidden; padding: 5px 2px 0 2px; text-decoration: none;" target="_blank">Burning and releasing at the stages anger mismanagement workshops</a></li> <li class="zemanta-article-ul-li-image zemanta-article-ul-li" style="background: none; display: block; float: left; font-size: 11px; list-style: none; margin: 2px 10px 10px 2px; padding: 0; text-align: left; vertical-align: top; width: 84px;"><a href="http://childwithinus.blogspot.com/2015/05/we-all-suffer-from-social-dissociation.html" style="border-radius: 2px; box-shadow: 0px 0px 4px #999; display: block; padding: 2px; text-decoration: none;" target="_blank"><img src="//i.zemanta.com/341513093_80_80.jpg" style="border: 0; display: block; margin: 0; max-width: 100%; padding: 0; width: 80px;" /></a><a href="http://childwithinus.blogspot.com/2015/05/we-all-suffer-from-social-dissociation.html" style="background-image: none; display: block; height: 83px; line-height: 12pt; overflow: hidden; padding: 5px 2px 0 2px; text-decoration: none;" target="_blank">We all suffer from social dissociation or joining the tribe.</a></li> </ul> </div>

The child within is real.

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Child Within is our childhood entity.

<span style="font-family: Courier New, Courier, monospace; font-size: large;"> </span><br /> <div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"> <span style="font-family: Courier New, Courier, monospace; font-size: large;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjTEelEhydEDu9jKjaVuOG6sMI9yk_OUBo6mWloN6UiTscFTzPVduZokHTkkeNgKkcvDDWsH0RwK-y11HBOSkVS0P6fgwAQ13AD2nIKIClHiNnk9TmU_4UXc3iiRbFOsJ7_Ml8oOf9Gq2k/s1600/1-med2+Collage.jpg.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" height="135" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjTEelEhydEDu9jKjaVuOG6sMI9yk_OUBo6mWloN6UiTscFTzPVduZokHTkkeNgKkcvDDWsH0RwK-y11HBOSkVS0P6fgwAQ13AD2nIKIClHiNnk9TmU_4UXc3iiRbFOsJ7_Ml8oOf9Gq2k/s320/1-med2+Collage.jpg.jpg" width="320" /></a></span></div> <span style="font-family: Courier New, Courier, monospace; font-size: large;"> Child Within is our childhood entity. It includes all that we learned and experienced as children. The child within denotes an independent entity subordinate to the waking conscious mind.</span><br /> <div class="zemanta-related" style="clear: both; margin-top: 20px; overflow: hidden;"> <h4 class="zemanta-related-title"> Related articles</h4> <ul class="zemanta-article-ul zemanta-article-ul-image" style="margin: 0; overflow: hidden; padding: 0;"> <li class="zemanta-article-ul-li-image zemanta-article-ul-li" style="background: none; display: block; float: left; font-size: 11px; list-style: none; margin: 2px 10px 10px 2px; padding: 0; text-align: left; vertical-align: top; width: 84px;"><a href="http://intuitivevoices.blogspot.com/2015/04/their-is-nothing-remotely-like-ten.html" style="border-radius: 2px; box-shadow: 0px 0px 4px #999; display: block; padding: 2px; text-decoration: none;" target="_blank"><img src="//i.zemanta.com/336854411_80_80.jpg" style="border: 0; display: block; margin: 0; max-width: 100%; padding: 0; width: 80px;" /></a><a href="http://intuitivevoices.blogspot.com/2015/04/their-is-nothing-remotely-like-ten.html" style="background-image: none; 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Child Within is our childhood entity.

Child Within is our childhood entity. It includes all that we learned and experienced as children. The child within denotes an independ...

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Honesty is the channel of truth between the child within and our mind.

<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"> <a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgIWI6-XJG8QgPmWVI8tf4GEBCxY9uIyGnm-EbMeHfUXPDYNZcZbuhyphenhyphenJ6gX_3btMniIE7_Hh6lF4J9nNjbxJpYnfgbSgbm_V1qcTmpNcMPZgdXhyphenhyphenEjH94Yyu8A_6NApkicU48-qGAtI0pg/s1600/1-potty23.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgIWI6-XJG8QgPmWVI8tf4GEBCxY9uIyGnm-EbMeHfUXPDYNZcZbuhyphenhyphenJ6gX_3btMniIE7_Hh6lF4J9nNjbxJpYnfgbSgbm_V1qcTmpNcMPZgdXhyphenhyphenEjH94Yyu8A_6NApkicU48-qGAtI0pg/s1600/1-potty23.jpg" /></a></div> <span style="font-family: Courier New, Courier, monospace; font-size: large;">Honesty is the channel of truth between the child within and our mind. Those who nurture it are imbued with enormous power: the power to see, the power to know, the power to differentiate, the power to reflect, the power to choose, the power to speak the truth, and ultimately the power to grow.<br /><br />Most people are dishonest in an attempt to eschew their power. They live as victims, strapped into the childhood ruts their parents lovingly moved them into. They lie not only to their closest intimates but to themselves. Their child within is dangerous because it connects with all their years of buried pain and rage and sadness and hurt. If it were to explode it would crush their fragile external lives – and force them to realise just how unloved they are by themselves and their present intimates and how unloved they were in their childhoods by those entrusted to guide their existences.<br /><br />But at the same time this explosion would free their real purpose for being. Suddenly their lives would find hope – and a path toward peace. This peace might trouble them, as it has troubled some, but at least they would know for once who they really are.1</span>

Honesty is the channel of truth between the child within and our mind.

Honesty is the channel of truth between the child within and our mind. Those who nurture it are imbued with enormous power: the power to s...

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The Stagers course work has been broken down into its component parts to allow us to self reflect

<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"> <a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjG_2Ik_O7QDUh4H5GFl1OwG-tYJ1Ks_psDyW9PzCP6294mFlR1NPcdD0ONobMiPSjJGpUjvVu2lpl8akG-UMPav9ZICtq_fzcBSh8pYASxn-0gzjUk20BVecEDMS4-qKlm8wz7cQlTzAw/s1600/story34.jpeg" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjG_2Ik_O7QDUh4H5GFl1OwG-tYJ1Ks_psDyW9PzCP6294mFlR1NPcdD0ONobMiPSjJGpUjvVu2lpl8akG-UMPav9ZICtq_fzcBSh8pYASxn-0gzjUk20BVecEDMS4-qKlm8wz7cQlTzAw/s1600/story34.jpeg" /></a></div> <span style="background-color: white; color: #555555; font-family: "courier new" , "courier" , monospace; font-size: medium;">The Ten Stages course work has been broken down for simplicity and understanding into its component parts to allow us to self reflect in quite meditation.</span><br /> <br style="background-color: white; color: #555555; font-family: 'Courier New', Courier, monospace; font-size: large;" /> <br style="background-color: white; color: #555555; font-family: 'Courier New', Courier, monospace; font-size: large;" /> <span style="background-color: white; color: #555555; font-family: "courier new" , "courier" , monospace; font-size: medium;">Course 1:We understand we have the power to recharge our lives and stop being dependent on substances or other people for our self-esteem and security.</span><br /> <br style="background-color: white; color: #555555; font-family: 'Courier New', Courier, monospace; font-size: large;" /> <br style="background-color: white; color: #555555; font-family: 'Courier New', Courier, monospace; font-size: large;" /> <span style="background-color: white; color: #555555; font-family: "courier new" , "courier" , monospace; font-size: medium;">Course 2:We come to believe that our child within awakens the healing wisdom within us when we open ourselves to that intuitive power.</span><br /> <br style="background-color: white; color: #555555; font-family: 'Courier New', Courier, monospace; font-size: large;" /> <span style="background-color: white; color: #555555; font-family: "courier new" , "courier" , monospace; font-size: medium;">Course 3:We make a decision to become our authentic selves and trust in the healing power of our inner truth.</span><br /> <br style="background-color: white; color: #555555; font-family: 'Courier New', Courier, monospace; font-size: large;" /> <br style="background-color: white; color: #555555; font-family: 'Courier New', Courier, monospace; font-size: large;" /> <span style="background-color: white; color: #555555; font-family: "courier new" , "courier" , monospace; font-size: medium;">Course 4:We examine/self reflect on our beliefs, addictions, and dependent behaviour in the context of our life.</span><br /> <br style="background-color: white; color: #555555; font-family: 'Courier New', Courier, monospace; font-size: large;" /> <br style="background-color: white; color: #555555; font-family: 'Courier New', Courier, monospace; font-size: large;" /> <span style="background-color: white; color: #555555; font-family: "courier new" , "courier" , monospace; font-size: medium;">Course 5:We share with another person and ourselves all those things inside of us for which we feel shame and guilt from childhood. All the things we feel have been done to us that lack respect.</span><br /> <br style="background-color: white; color: #555555; font-family: 'Courier New', Courier, monospace; font-size: large;" /> <br style="background-color: white; color: #555555; font-family: 'Courier New', Courier, monospace; font-size: large;" /> <span style="background-color: white; color: #555555; font-family: "courier new" , "courier" , monospace; font-size: medium;">Course 6:We self reflect and enjoy our intelligence, strengths and creativity, remembering not to hide these qualities from ourselves and our ten stage guides.We tell them in a gentle way that respects us.</span><br /> <br style="background-color: white; color: #555555; font-family: 'Courier New', Courier, monospace; font-size: large;" /> <br style="background-color: white; color: #555555; font-family: 'Courier New', Courier, monospace; font-size: large;" /> <span style="background-color: white; color: #555555; font-family: "courier new" , "courier" , monospace; font-size: medium;">Course 7:We become willing to let go of guilt, shame and the learned behaviour that prevents us from loving ourselves and others.</span><br /> <br style="background-color: white; color: #555555; font-family: 'Courier New', Courier, monospace; font-size: large;" /> <br style="background-color: white; color: #555555; font-family: 'Courier New', Courier, monospace; font-size: large;" /> <span style="background-color: white; color: #555555; font-family: "courier new" , "courier" , monospace; font-size: medium;">Course 8:We make an inventory of what we feel has harmed our child within that which has harmed others and people who have harmed us, and take steps to clear out negative energy by making amends to ourselves sharing our grievances with the guides and people we bring into our circle of the child within trusting in a respectful way to access our inner selves.</span><br /> <br style="background-color: white; color: #555555; font-family: 'Courier New', Courier, monospace; font-size: large;" /> <br style="background-color: white; color: #555555; font-family: 'Courier New', Courier, monospace; font-size: large;" /> <span style="background-color: white; color: #555555; font-family: "courier new" , "courier" , monospace; font-size: medium;">Course 9:We express love and gratitude to others within our circle and increasingly appreciate the wonder of life and the blessings we do have.</span><br /> <br style="background-color: white; color: #555555; font-family: 'Courier New', Courier, monospace; font-size: large;" /> <br style="background-color: white; color: #555555; font-family: 'Courier New', Courier, monospace; font-size: large;" /> <span style="background-color: white; color: #555555; font-family: "courier new" , "courier" , monospace; font-size: medium;">Course 10:We learn to trust our new found reality and daily communicate this new found reality with firstly our safe friends in our circle that we see what we see, we know what we know and we feel what we feel.</span><br /> <br style="background-color: white; color: #555555; font-family: 'Courier New', Courier, monospace; font-size: large;" /> <br style="background-color: white; color: #555555; font-family: 'Courier New', Courier, monospace; font-size: large;" /> <span style="background-color: white; color: #555555; font-family: "courier new" , "courier" , monospace; font-size: medium;">Course 11:We promptly admit to dissociation and make amends to ourselves and notify others when appropriate, but we do not say we are sorry for things we have not done and we do not cover up, analyse or take responsibility for the shortcomings of others.</span><br /> <br style="background-color: white; color: #555555; font-family: 'Courier New', Courier, monospace; font-size: large;" /> <br style="background-color: white; color: #555555; font-family: 'Courier New', Courier, monospace; font-size: large;" /> <span style="background-color: white; color: #555555; font-family: "courier new" , "courier" , monospace; font-size: medium;">Course 12:We seek out situations,jobs, and people that affirm our intelligence, perceptions, and self-worth and avoid situations or people who are hurtful harmful, or demeaning to us.</span><br /> <br style="background-color: white; color: #555555; font-family: 'Courier New', Courier, monospace; font-size: large;" /> <br style="background-color: white; color: #555555; font-family: 'Courier New', Courier, monospace; font-size: large;" /> <span style="background-color: white; color: #555555; font-family: "courier new" , "courier" , monospace; font-size: medium;">Course 13:We take charge of our stages to introduce us and nurture our child within to heal our physical bodies, organise our lives, reduce stress, and have fun.</span><br /> <br style="background-color: white; color: #555555; font-family: 'Courier New', Courier, monospace; font-size: large;" /> <br style="background-color: white; color: #555555; font-family: 'Courier New', Courier, monospace; font-size: large;" /> <span style="background-color: white; color: #555555; font-family: "courier new" , "courier" , monospace; font-size: medium;">Course 14:We seek to find our out our intuitive voice in the silence of meditation , developing the will and wisdom to follow it.</span><br /> <br style="background-color: white; color: #555555; font-family: 'Courier New', Courier, monospace; font-size: large;" /> <br style="background-color: white; color: #555555; font-family: 'Courier New', Courier, monospace; font-size: large;" /> <span style="background-color: white; color: #555555; font-family: "courier new" , "courier" , monospace; font-size: medium;">Course 15:We always accept the ups and downs of life as natural events that can be used as lessons for our growth in the ten stages.</span><br /> <br style="background-color: white; color: #555555; font-family: 'Courier New', Courier, monospace; font-size: large;" /> <br style="background-color: white; color: #555555; font-family: 'Courier New', Courier, monospace; font-size: large;" /> <span style="background-color: white; color: #555555; font-family: "courier new" , "courier" , monospace; font-size: medium;">Course 16:We acknowledge our growth in awareness and our reality that we are sacred beings, interrelated with all living things, and we contribute to restoring peace and balance in our lives and the lives of others.</span>

The Stagers course work has been broken down into its component parts to allow us to self reflect

The Ten Stages course work has been broken down for simplicity and understanding into its component parts to allow us to self reflect in q...

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